Anonymous asked:

I can't forget him. I love this person so much I don't know how to forget please tell me what I should do

There is a difference between forgetting and letting go. I don’t think you want to forget, the beautiful things that hurt right now are memories you want to look back on years from now. You will let go, and you will let go when it is right for you to. The moment will come when you wake up and see how much love you deserve and how much you give. It might take a bit of time but when it happens everything you were holding onto will fall away and you will feel so free. Be patient with your heart, you are not dying. You will survive and you will love and love and love and love. It is what you are meant to do. Love causes relapse. Be patient.

Anonymous asked:

do you love yourself?

Yes. For the first time in my life, I really do. It took a lot of forgiving of my many flaws and mistakes in order to do this..

I love myself because I know how short life can be. I try to live in the moment and appreciate everything and everyone around me because of that reason too. And I love myself because I have been treated badly and it eventually hit me that I deserve better, so now I don’t even let myself get hung up over anything or anyone that doesn’t have the same love and respect in them that I have. I try to be the best person that I can be.

sometimes I wonder
If anyone else ever
sometimes feels like
there is a better version
of themselves
inside themselves
and everyday
fights to shed
away the excess
parts of us
that tie us down
so we can finally
feel free.

Nicole C. (via sundriedaisy)